{"id":5567,"date":"2018-11-09T17:30:14","date_gmt":"2018-11-09T23:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/w0ep.us\/TM\/?p=5567"},"modified":"2018-11-09T17:30:14","modified_gmt":"2018-11-09T23:30:14","slug":"small-gestures-of-kindness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/w0ep.us\/TM\/?p=5567","title":{"rendered":"Small Gestures of Kindness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most of you know I live out in the country in Mississippi.\u00a0 The poverty in Mississippi in some areas is staggering.\u00a0 I&#8217;m going to tell you a little story about the poverty in the area in which I live AND the kindness I witness on a recent run.<\/p>\n<p>There is a small country church a few miles from my place.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve met many of its parishioners on Sunday morning runs (before I head off for church myself) and have grown to enjoy the brief interactions we have.\u00a0 Super friendly folk!\u00a0 They cheer as I ran past their little church and ask about training and upcoming races.\u00a0 I ask about their family and wish them a great worship service.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re neighbors.\u00a0 That is what we do.<\/p>\n<p>This small church has a tiny cemetery.\u00a0 There aren&#8217;t that many graves but there are quite a few recent graves.<\/p>\n<p>Probably a year back, I stumbled upon a family trying to have a private service for someone that I&#8217;m going to assume, was another family member.<\/p>\n<p>Bless them, they didn&#8217;t have two pennies to rub together and they had cobbled together a pinewood coffin that I KNOW would not meet safety standards for burial.\u00a0 I know there&#8217;s certain rules that have to be met to bury a person in the big and impersonal *IMO* cemeteries.\u00a0 You purchase the fancy, satin lined coffin and then the vault in which you place the coffin before the whole she~bang gets buried into the purchased burial plot.<\/p>\n<p>Funerals and burials are expensive!<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/personalfinance.costhelper.com\/burial-vaults.html<\/p>\n<p>This dear family didn&#8217;t have $15,000 to pay to bury their loved one so they have gone to the local lumber yard and purchased the bare minimum to build their own coffin.<\/p>\n<p>Out of respect to the family, I stopped my run, took off my hat and bowed my head to show the family I was sorry for interrupting their private time and immediately changed my route.\u00a0 They did not need me running through their grief.<\/p>\n<p>Over this past year, I&#8217;ve noticed more and more small, private family burials of the same nature and I&#8217;ve watched this little cemetery grow.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve kind of come to the conclusion after noticing things going on here that this was a paupers cemetery!\u00a0 I&#8217;d read of places like this but had never actually seen one before.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s quite a few mounds of dirt in the small corner of the church property.\u00a0 The other thing I&#8217;ve noticed is that none of the plots were marked.\u00a0 Sure, there was a hand made cross on some of the graves but no official head stones&#8230;not that this kind of a thing matters.<\/p>\n<p>Then this past Wednesday I was running past this place again.\u00a0 I noticed something new.\u00a0 Yes, there was still the mounds of fresher graves BUT every single grave had a brand new head stone!\u00a0 Somebody had gone to the trouble and expense to make sure each and every saint in this cemetery was honored with their own marker.<\/p>\n<p>Call me strange but this made my heart smile!<\/p>\n<p>A simple gesture but one, that I feel, was probably the kindest thing I&#8217;ve witnessed in a very long time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/w0ep.us\/TM\/?attachment_id=5568\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-5568\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5568\" src=\"http:\/\/w0ep.us\/TM\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/45869405_1931954863591307_4872673365480964096_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" 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